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How to Please a Woman?
Danny Gonzalez
Gentlemen, if you have ever wondered how to please a woman, you are definitely not alone. For some of us, satisfying a woman's desires comes as naturally as throwing strikes over home plate. But the majority of us could benefit from solid coaching, a few pointers that keep us in the game.
Now, consider this surprising concept when it comes to pleasing a woman, gentlemen: it's not all about the sex. Shocking, is it not?
Biologists point to the fact that the male and female brains function differently, particularly in regions of the brain linked to desire such as the amygdala and hippocampus. On the other hand, psychological research suggests that variations in male-female relations are social constructs, learned behaviors and gender roles.
In plain English, this scientific jargon boils down to the basic idea of perception. Women perceive satisfaction differently, so the first step toward pleasing a woman is to use this difference to your advantage, gentlemen.
Let's use your girlfriend's or wife's birthday as a quick example. If you choose a practical, bland gift like a day out in the spa, you are all but assured to swing and miss. But if you find a perfect present which is emotionally meaningful, you can at least count on a base hit.
Reading your woman is the key and the hardest concept to master. Pay attention to the fine details, gentlemen, even in everyday situations.
The old tricks and tired lines from your college years will not work for long. So gather as much intel as you can before making your move. No one hits a homerun during their first at-bat.
Listen to her. Look her in the eyes. Make her laugh. And you will discover that how to please a woman is as simple as a genuine smile.
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